I think alot of men have a fucked up idea of women.
They are either putting them on some pedestal and worshipping them as sex goddesses or they are taken over by the polar opposite viewpoint, letting misogyny take over and pretty much treating women like dirt - trying to fuck them all for pride or calling them whores etc.
Just look at your average rap lyrics, so full of hate and violence against women. Tupac himself said we need to start treating women better and that goes for all men imo not just blacks who are famous for slapping their hoes down.
I think that more men need to see women as they truly are. They are just people.
I think we realize this as children as long as our mothers arent monstrous but we forget this simple fact as time goes on and we are illusioned by society.
Next thing you know we forget how much we loved our mothers/sisters/cousins whatever and we start to see woman as souless material objects who will only date us if we are the best looking or have the most money.
While it may be true that we live in a shallow material world everyone needs to realize thats theres a spiritual world on top of it that plays by different rules.
I think everything I said applies for women as well with their talk about how men are pigs or dogs blah blah
I know I am not a pig or a dog and I know tons of intelligent and well mannered men who arent pigs or dogs.