Would you help the person who wont stand by you when you need him. He is not doing the right thing by not helping out. Its wrong. But should I also do the wrong thing. Or should I continue being good. Doing what is right.

When the choice is between doin' what is right and what is easy, What would you choose to do. What you ought to do or what you want to do. Is doin' what you want to do translates into being unfair to ureslf. Would that equate to punishing urself

i do what i feel is right

and sometimes i do what i feel is fair

^^^Even if it is unfair to the other person.?

Doing what is right is sometimes really stressful imo

i do what i feel is fair to the other person

^^^I try to

The thing is that u feel a lot of stress when you have to choose. U have to sometimes help people who do nothin but backstab u. Cheat u. And u wonder if its ur insecurity. If u r misinterpreting them

i feel lil stress
depends on conviction

no need for double post . lol

so what is it that you are going through

Ask God for help, its your only way to find the right answer.

i hear ya dude, in the past few months ive had to make nothin but crazy decisions. i just go with wat i feel is right, i try to analize the options. then i do what i think is best. and i try not to regret things, cause you cant change the past. one big dec. i made a couple months ago was to move back here on LI where i always lived, up until 2 years ago which i had been stayin with my dad in SC. im still not sure if i made the dec. but im just goin with the flow and if worse comes to worse i can always go back.

The thing is that u feel a lot of stress when you have to choose. U have to sometimes help people who do nothin but backstab u. Cheat u. And u wonder if its ur insecurity. If u r misinterpreting them

Is helping someone who backstabs u the fair thing to do?
No its not.
Why do they backstab u when u try only to do whats best for them?There are many who take advantage of those who have a hard time saying 'no' & you could be considered an easy mark for such unsavoury folk by doing what you percieve as good.ie ur considered weak,not good.

Its easy for me to disreguard such undesirables.To consider ones good deeds as weak rather than good is unintelligent,greedy, disrespectful & rather distasteful.
Give a little ,get a little.These people are not abiding that Karmic law so
I have no conscience at all in not helping such folk.